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We all know that true meaningful relationships come when we are loved and accepted for whom we are at our core, not simply for acting the right way in our relationships so as to keep the other person in it. But sometimes this becomes a necessity to survive and keep few people close to you, either to get a job done or be close to them since that makes you feel good about your self. What if the other person keeps hurting you, repeatedly over a period of time, unintentionally? Can we let it go since that was not meant to hurt and was not done with a definite purpose and it just happened? Or we can distance yourself from the other person to make them suffer and make him know much it hurts when a loved one hurts. It depends person to person how he looks at things but ultimately if a relationship is stressed, it usually breaks or looses its shine that it had before. Whoever said that fighting strengthens a relationship wouldn’t had a lot of fighting’s with anyone close to him. I seem to be fighting for no apparent or solid cause and I wonder why this all is happening. Is this indicating to something coming my way, any good or bad news and wants me to distance myself from the sender. This can’t happen since the other person is too close to me that I can take pain but don’t seem to want to go away. I know that this will hurt very badly when that person actually goes away.